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Sunday, April 14, 2013

James is 2

I seriously can't believe it, my little boy is two!  It's crazy to think two years ago we were very patiently awaiting (it was definitely on his terms) our first born child to come into the world

and now look at this guy!




A little bit about James lately....

He is definitely a two year old.  Sigh.  This has been super hard for momma especially now that my hormones are out of wack and I'm moody.  Where has my sweet little boy gone?  He has started this blood curdling scream that he does when he's mad and doesn't get his way or when he's mad and someone just looks at him.  Sure makes him look like a bratty kid when he does this to complete strangers.  But then in an instant he can do a total 180 and he's back to his sweet old self giving kisses and telling mommy she's pretty.  Split personalities, I swear.

One issue we are having is eating time, this kid does not eat lately.  I wonder if he's getting his two year old molars in.  But he's also just gotten more picky which I didn't know was possible.  He used to like a small variety of things but now it has gotten even smaller!  So frustrating!  He used to love fruit especially bananas but now he won't eat them.  And what he does eat, he isn't eating much and of course mom's like to control that because you want your child to grow healthy and strong.  My sister who is in nursing school said she learned that kids around this age will go through a time where they won't eat much at all and that is perfectly ok, they are hitting a plateau in growth and don't need much at this time.  And my mother in law sent me some information that said kids will eat however much they need to at a given time so these things have helped me feel better.

He has been getting up around 7:30am (sometimes before) for the past couple months no matter what time he goes to bed even if it's a late night...I really shouldn't complain but I really enjoyed sleeping till 8-8:30 every morning haha.  Oh well, such is life.  We used to put him down at 8:30 at night but now that he's getting up earlier, we put him down at 8pm and he does just fine so that's a good compromise.

We have started limiting the binky to naps and bedtime.  He has actually done pretty well at this which I was surprised, that kid loves his binky.  As long as we keep it out of sight, he doesn't really ask for it.  We will probably let him keep it during naps and bedtime for a while.  I worry about taking it completely away.  He'll wake up usually one time during the night (sometimes even twice) which is annoying...he used to sleep through the whole night when he was younger....but it's usually because he has lost his binky so all we have to do is go in and pop it back in and we're good so I worry about eliminating the binky completely for fear he won't be able to put himself back to sleep.  Hopefully it'll come with age.  Advice or words of encouragement from other moms would be greatly appreciated :)

He has figured out how to open all the doors in the house now!  Ahhhh!  I liked that I could hide stuff behind a closed door and know it was safe....not so much anymore ha.  I still need to go out and buy those baby proof door knob covers.  His favorite door to open is the pantry.  He helps himself to pretty much anything he wants in there, though not as of late because he's not eating!!

He is a smart little stinker and knows his colors pretty well and can count to 10 in English and Spanish.  A little toy got him started with the Spanish counting.  He usually needs help with counting but we will hear him counting to himself and will do pretty well, only skipping a couple numbers and then he'll clap and say "yay" when he gets to 10.

He even knows how to work our iPhones!!  It's not like we gave this kid a course on how to use it! Oh the day and age we live in.   He knows how to slide it on and will get into Netflix to find Thomas.  I have no clue how he even figured out how to use Netflix, we very rarely use it on our phones before he figured it out.  If someone texts me and I leave it lying in a reachable spot, he will slide it open and start texting them back.  I will also go to use a certain app and find it is no longer there, yep he deleted it haha.  Good thing Apple tracks all that for you so you don't have to go and buy it again :)

He sings to a couple songs on the radio, usually those with a repetitious chorus.  He likes the Taylor Swift song, "We are Never Getting Back Together"  and will sing parts of it.  It is so cute.  He still absolutely loves Thomas the Train and now has a Thomas the Train shirt and when given the opportunity to pick out a shirt to wear, it's always that one whether it's clean or not.  He for some reason really likes the At&t commercials, he likes the little chime at the end and will sing it and say "At&t" after it.


Some of our favorite things he says lately are...

"Mama/Dada hold you."  if he wants to be held.

"Kanks" for Thanks.  He's a very polite boy ;)

If we ask him something like, "Are you ready to get out of the bathtub?" he'll say, "No, I'm not" but will even give that response if you ask him something like, "Do you like your toy?"..."No, I'm not."

"I wanna sit on couch."  when he wants to avoid taking a nap or going to bed and wants to just snuggle.

"Mama pretty."  melts my heart.  He'll say this and play with my hair too.

He will pass gas and then try to blame it on one of us, "Mama/Dada toot."

After we get off the phone or one time I asked an employee at a store a question, he asks "Who's that?"

He'll ask, "Mama/Dada what you doin?"


Here's a picture he created on Doodle Buddy on the phone, and then subsequently saved it for me to find later.  He's so creative :)


Carson and I took him to Red Robin for his birthday dinner and then we had a little family get together for his birthday yesterday and had cupcakes, rice krispie treats, and ice cream and opened presents.  It was fun getting everyone together to celebrate his special day.  



giving hugs at the party



baga and papa Swensen got him a Tonka truck



baga and papa Cullimore got him a wheel barrow (you better believe he'll be helping put in the yard this Spring/Summer)


Mama and Dada got him a trike



Happy birthday sweet little boy.  We love you so much.

Monday, April 1, 2013

Here We Go Again

I feel like I am singing Whitesnake haha.  Yessir I am expecting.  I am currently 13 weeks and baby Cullimore #2 will join us somewhere around October 8th!  We are super excited!

I can't believe this little boy will be a big brother!  When I took the test and got the results, James was hanging out around me playing and I said, "James!  You're going to be a big brother!!"  he got so excited and started running around making silly faces and yelling "Big brother!"  I had to capture the moment :)  He definitely doesn't have a clue quite yet what it means to be a big brother haha


So sort of funny, we found out on Valentines day (aww so cute).  I had my iud taken out and it messed up my cycle a little so I couldn't gauge anything off of that.  I had taken tests before but all came back negative.  Well on this particular day, I woke up with James at about 6am just to put his binky back in and he went back to sleep.  I felt SUPER nauseous and (sorry for the info) threw up.  I was planning on having a play group at my house that day and James and I had already had the stomach bug only like a month or two before and had to cancel something when we got it that time.  I figured I'll be darned if I have to cancel one more thing because of illness so I decided to at least rule one thing out.  I ran to the clinic I work for and grabbed a pregnancy test and took it home.  I seriously wasn't expecting it to be positive but here we are!  Needless to say, I still held playgroup :)

So then I wasn't sure how far along I was but I was guessing at that point about 5-6 weeks because I was having the nausea.  That day I couldn't keep anything down and I felt so crummy.  I told Carson if this is what morning sickness is like and it's supposed to last 6 more weeks, we are not having another one.  As a lot of you may know, I did not have an ounce of nausea when I was pregnant with James.  Well, the next day I went to work and felt a little weak and just didn't feel like eating anything but after that I have been feeling pretty well.  So it's weird, I either had my bout of morning sickness (I had actually felt sort of queasy the two days before I actually threw up) in a few days span or I had the stomach bug again.  I'm guessing the latter, thought no one else got sick this time around in my family??  So really it's been pretty good despite that first week, but pretty crappy that I've had the stomach flu twice this season..boo!  Sorry to those who get sick while pregnant :( 

I made an appointment to see the doctor and they kept asking me why I was coming in so late based off of my last period...I kept telling them, "I wouldn't use that to gauge.  I know I'm not as far along as you're telling me."  So they did an ultrasound to find out and at that point I was 8 weeks which is exactly what I was thinking.  


So how have I been feeling/adjusting?

It has been quite a bit harder this time around with emotions and mood but I really think that is because 
I am dealing with a two year old on top of all the pregnancy hormones and fatigue.  Wow, he definitely tests my patience.  I have a lot to learn :)  Oh my poor husband and child... But they are so good to me and forgive me time after time for being the wife/mother from hell.  Things are getting better now that I'm in the second trimester (or close I guess).    

It has also been more challenging this time around with fatigue and lack of motivation.  You would think that last time would've been harder because I was going to school and working a lot...maybe it was and I've forgotten :)  but I seriously have struggled with this.  I do exercise 2-3 days a week which definitely helps me gain some energy and motivation though.  I can definitely see a difference on the days when I don't exercise.

I know things progress differently with the second and on.  It's interesting comparing this one so far to my pregnancy with James.  This time around I started showing at 12 weeks!  Crazy.  Last time I didn't start showing till 15 weeks and even then I think I was the only one who could tell.  I just looked like I had gotten a little pudgy in the mid torso area.  I think (hopefully) this time you can tell it's something more than just gaining a few pounds :)  I can also feel the little dude (or dudette) moving at times.  Right now it feels like little flurries or muscle spasms that kind of tickle.  I wasn't able to for sure recognize baby movements with James till 18 weeks.  

this was taken at 12 weeks...excuse the "grunge" look, I had just gotten out of the shower ;)



We're super nervous but we're also really excited!  We know there are a lot of people out there and we have a few personal friends who struggle with infertility and our hearts go out to them.  As scared and nervous as we are, we are so grateful for the opportunity to not only be parents to one child, but now two!

It's going to be an interesting year!